Rambo_Muscle
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Hello all.
This is quite personal for me, though I believe that others can help me, and people that are similar to me and in the same situation, please leave a message.
Yes, I am 20 and I have never had a girlfriend, and I have never had sex. before you start questioning, there is nothing wrong with me.
I am 6 FT tall.
150 LBS.
Handsome, (I have been told I am, and I am, not being arrogant, but I like being in style, keeping my hair styled, coloured, etc.
I Go to the gym, Martial arts, Very fit, lean muscle with under 10% bodyfat.
Very outgoing out, confident (Quite shy around girls, depends which hah)
Like going out with friends to clubs, etc.
I believe I am not like most guys, why? look below.
I do not drink, (EVER, never even had a glass of beer before)
I do not smoke (EVER, never tried, not going to)
I do not take drugs (EVER, never tried, never going to)
I do not use girls for sex, and I wouldn't, I am looking for a relationship and to love that special girl, not for a one night stand.
I want to care for that special girl, take her out, make her enjoy herself, look after her, make her feel special!.
I want to be loved and I want to love that special girl.
I am a big believer in Fitness, Nutrition, Martial Arts, and Philosophy.
I am not ugly, I am handsome, I have been told by many. I have had a few opportunities with girls liking me and wanting me, though I did not really have the connection with them, and I wouldn't use them for my pleasure. I am not arrogant, I am not mean, I am not nasty, I am not a user, I am probably too respectable and nice.
Well anyways, I like this girl at the local supermarket, I have talked to her a few times but not recently, Months ago we talked and she told me that she does hairdressing, and I talked about what I like, Gym etc, and that I study. We talked a little, and I feel a bit of a connection and a lot of attraction towards her.
I was going to talk to her next time, though if she is not at the counter, I may wave and say hello, if she is! then thats where I will start off something like this.
"Hey, how are you, haven't talked to you for a while"
(I am not after reading a script, but thats what has been in my head to talk to her about, of course it is important to be yourself but I do not want to stuff it up haha.
I'll follow up with the below sentence.
"Hows work, (And that leads into a conversation about me trying to get a job here) then I can ask her how her hairdressing is going, etc.
Then I may ask her, how do you pronounce your name (Because I haven't really had her ask my name, or anything, Her name is quite unique)
Then I could be something like, Wow, thats a unique name, I haven't heard of that one before (ITS TRUE) and I may say something like, My name is quite unique too, hoping she asks what it is.
I want to get to know her and talk to her 3-4 times before asking her out for dinner or somewhere.
Please help me with any tips, conversations, etc, and past experiences.
Thank you.
This is quite personal for me, though I believe that others can help me, and people that are similar to me and in the same situation, please leave a message.
Yes, I am 20 and I have never had a girlfriend, and I have never had sex. before you start questioning, there is nothing wrong with me.
I am 6 FT tall.
150 LBS.
Handsome, (I have been told I am, and I am, not being arrogant, but I like being in style, keeping my hair styled, coloured, etc.
I Go to the gym, Martial arts, Very fit, lean muscle with under 10% bodyfat.
Very outgoing out, confident (Quite shy around girls, depends which hah)
Like going out with friends to clubs, etc.
I believe I am not like most guys, why? look below.
I do not drink, (EVER, never even had a glass of beer before)
I do not smoke (EVER, never tried, not going to)
I do not take drugs (EVER, never tried, never going to)
I do not use girls for sex, and I wouldn't, I am looking for a relationship and to love that special girl, not for a one night stand.
I want to care for that special girl, take her out, make her enjoy herself, look after her, make her feel special!.
I want to be loved and I want to love that special girl.
I am a big believer in Fitness, Nutrition, Martial Arts, and Philosophy.
I am not ugly, I am handsome, I have been told by many. I have had a few opportunities with girls liking me and wanting me, though I did not really have the connection with them, and I wouldn't use them for my pleasure. I am not arrogant, I am not mean, I am not nasty, I am not a user, I am probably too respectable and nice.
Well anyways, I like this girl at the local supermarket, I have talked to her a few times but not recently, Months ago we talked and she told me that she does hairdressing, and I talked about what I like, Gym etc, and that I study. We talked a little, and I feel a bit of a connection and a lot of attraction towards her.
I was going to talk to her next time, though if she is not at the counter, I may wave and say hello, if she is! then thats where I will start off something like this.
"Hey, how are you, haven't talked to you for a while"
(I am not after reading a script, but thats what has been in my head to talk to her about, of course it is important to be yourself but I do not want to stuff it up haha.
I'll follow up with the below sentence.
"Hows work, (And that leads into a conversation about me trying to get a job here) then I can ask her how her hairdressing is going, etc.
Then I may ask her, how do you pronounce your name (Because I haven't really had her ask my name, or anything, Her name is quite unique)
Then I could be something like, Wow, thats a unique name, I haven't heard of that one before (ITS TRUE) and I may say something like, My name is quite unique too, hoping she asks what it is.
I want to get to know her and talk to her 3-4 times before asking her out for dinner or somewhere.
Please help me with any tips, conversations, etc, and past experiences.
Thank you.