Rambo_Muscle
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Hello all.
This is quite personal for me, though I believe that others can help me, and people that are similar to me and in the same situation, please leave a message.
Yes, I am 20 and I have never had a girlfriend, and I have never had sex. before you start questioning, there is nothing wrong with me.
I am 6 FT tall.
150 LBS.
Handsome, (I have been told I am, and I am, not being arrogant, but I like being in style, keeping my hair styled, coloured, etc.
I Go to the gym, Martial arts, Very fit, lean muscle with under 10% bodyfat.
Very outgoing out, confident (Quite shy around girls, depends which hah)
Like going out with friends to clubs, etc.
I believe I am not like most guys, why? look below.
I do not drink, (EVER, never even had a glass of beer before)
I do not smoke (EVER, never tried, not going to)
I do not take drugs (EVER, never tried, never going to)
I do not use girls for sex, and I wouldn't, I am looking for a relationship and to love that special girl, not for a one night stand.
I want to care for that special girl, take her out, make her enjoy herself, look after her, make her feel special!.
I want to be loved and I want to love that special girl.
I am a big believer in Fitness, Nutrition, Martial Arts, and Philosophy.
I am not ugly, I am handsome, I have been told by many. I have had a few opportunities with girls liking me and wanting me, though I did not really have the connection with them, and I wouldn't use them for my pleasure. I am not arrogant, I am not mean, I am not nasty, I am not a user, I am probably too respectable and nice.
Well anyways, I like this girl at the local supermarket, I have talked to her a few times but not recently, Months ago we talked and she told me that she does hairdressing, and I talked about what I like, Gym etc, and that I study. We talked a little, and I feel a bit of a connection and a lot of attraction towards her.
I was going to talk to her next time, though if she is not at the counter, I may wave and say hello, if she is! then thats where I will start off something like this.
"Hey, how are you, haven't talked to you for a while"
(I am not after reading a script, but thats what has been in my head to talk to her about, of course it is important to be yourself
but I do not want to stuff it up haha.
I'll follow up with the below sentence.
"Hows work, (And that leads into a conversation about me trying to get a job here) then I can ask her how her hairdressing is going, etc.
Then I may ask her, how do you pronounce your name (Because I haven't really had her ask my name, or anything, Her name is quite unique)
Then I could be something like, Wow, thats a unique name, I haven't heard of that one before (ITS TRUE) and I may say something like, My name is quite unique too, hoping she asks what it is.
I want to get to know her and talk to her 3-4 times before asking her out for dinner or somewhere.
Please help me with any tips, conversations, etc, and past experiences.
Thank you.
This is quite personal for me, though I believe that others can help me, and people that are similar to me and in the same situation, please leave a message.
Yes, I am 20 and I have never had a girlfriend, and I have never had sex. before you start questioning, there is nothing wrong with me.
I am 6 FT tall.
150 LBS.
Handsome, (I have been told I am, and I am, not being arrogant, but I like being in style, keeping my hair styled, coloured, etc.
I Go to the gym, Martial arts, Very fit, lean muscle with under 10% bodyfat.
Very outgoing out, confident (Quite shy around girls, depends which hah)
Like going out with friends to clubs, etc.
I believe I am not like most guys, why? look below.
I do not drink, (EVER, never even had a glass of beer before)
I do not smoke (EVER, never tried, not going to)
I do not take drugs (EVER, never tried, never going to)
I do not use girls for sex, and I wouldn't, I am looking for a relationship and to love that special girl, not for a one night stand.
I want to care for that special girl, take her out, make her enjoy herself, look after her, make her feel special!.
I want to be loved and I want to love that special girl.
I am a big believer in Fitness, Nutrition, Martial Arts, and Philosophy.
I am not ugly, I am handsome, I have been told by many. I have had a few opportunities with girls liking me and wanting me, though I did not really have the connection with them, and I wouldn't use them for my pleasure. I am not arrogant, I am not mean, I am not nasty, I am not a user, I am probably too respectable and nice.
Well anyways, I like this girl at the local supermarket, I have talked to her a few times but not recently, Months ago we talked and she told me that she does hairdressing, and I talked about what I like, Gym etc, and that I study. We talked a little, and I feel a bit of a connection and a lot of attraction towards her.
I was going to talk to her next time, though if she is not at the counter, I may wave and say hello, if she is! then thats where I will start off something like this.
"Hey, how are you, haven't talked to you for a while"
(I am not after reading a script, but thats what has been in my head to talk to her about, of course it is important to be yourself
I'll follow up with the below sentence.
"Hows work, (And that leads into a conversation about me trying to get a job here) then I can ask her how her hairdressing is going, etc.
Then I may ask her, how do you pronounce your name (Because I haven't really had her ask my name, or anything, Her name is quite unique)
Then I could be something like, Wow, thats a unique name, I haven't heard of that one before (ITS TRUE) and I may say something like, My name is quite unique too, hoping she asks what it is.
I want to get to know her and talk to her 3-4 times before asking her out for dinner or somewhere.
Please help me with any tips, conversations, etc, and past experiences.
Thank you.