Tiger lily
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while I was at uni, the few people I like turned out to be either gay or already in a relationship. However ever since Ive left uni 3 years ago now Ive not had chnace to meet any new men. There is nothing wrong with my confidence its just that ive lost all my friends due to them moving away getting boyfriends etc, and the old school friends I have im no longer on the same wave length as them. Ive joined, clubs, groups as everyone suggests but there are always older people, Ive met a few young but then Ive not been interested in them that way.
i feel like my youth is going to waste. Everyone my age is out there enjoying themselves with boyfriends/girfriends, and I don't even know where to find these people my age who are actually interesting to talk to aswell and not just into the usual going out drinking. I have lots of hobbies interests, but doing them alone all the time is getting my really depressed.
Im worried that when I eventually find that special someone they will think Im strange for never having a relationship before. Whereas I know its just down to circumstance and also not meeting the right person, maybe they don't believe me and think I cant be worth dating? I mean I'm even scared to be in a relationship because Im not sure what to expect.
Please can you be honest in your replies. Thankou.
i feel like my youth is going to waste. Everyone my age is out there enjoying themselves with boyfriends/girfriends, and I don't even know where to find these people my age who are actually interesting to talk to aswell and not just into the usual going out drinking. I have lots of hobbies interests, but doing them alone all the time is getting my really depressed.
Im worried that when I eventually find that special someone they will think Im strange for never having a relationship before. Whereas I know its just down to circumstance and also not meeting the right person, maybe they don't believe me and think I cant be worth dating? I mean I'm even scared to be in a relationship because Im not sure what to expect.
Please can you be honest in your replies. Thankou.