roses6
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Hi, this is my first my post here.
I moved to a new country for a 1 year course at a uni where I had dreamt of going to for a long, long time.
I had expected this to be one of the happiest years of my life-I remember at this time last year I had just arrived and was so incredibly happy- but it has turned out to be quite a difficult and hard time, made worse because I've been away from family.
Things have gone wrong, I just scraped though my programme. I was emotionally so low towards the past few months that I almost went back home before I took the exams.
Most of the problems have been due to reasons which are beyond my control, which just makes things worse. The worst have been the fact that a few people who I cared for deeply have died, and a couple of my closest friends have had to deal with unimaginable tragedies and grief, and that I have been so very ill during the year, partly due to complications from a surgery I had last year.
There have been other, less traumatic problems, like falling out with people who were once close to me, inability to make new friends, (apart from a couple of people), inability to find a job (my fault- I didn't do well in the exams), etc.
There are even more things that have happened, but I'm not going to go into them, because I believe what I have written is long enough as it is and clearly gives an idea of the state I'm in.
I'm still in the new place, planning to apply for jobs again this year, but I seem to have not even a bit of the motivation and drive that I had last year. Most days I can barely get out of bed. I have always had deep faith in God, and I suppose that is one thing that keeps me going ahead.
I cannot believe how much my life has changed in just a year. I used to feel sorry for myself but now I don't because a lot of people I know have gone through far worse than I have.
I won't say I'm lonely, but I feel unable to talk about the emotional pain I'm under these days. I've never been one to talk much about my issues, even with friends around, I've always preferred to be a loner, and honestly, I've found it easier to post this on here than speaking to someone about it.
I am aware that there isn't any help that anyone can offer on this, but if you've come this far, thanks for reading.
I moved to a new country for a 1 year course at a uni where I had dreamt of going to for a long, long time.
I had expected this to be one of the happiest years of my life-I remember at this time last year I had just arrived and was so incredibly happy- but it has turned out to be quite a difficult and hard time, made worse because I've been away from family.
Things have gone wrong, I just scraped though my programme. I was emotionally so low towards the past few months that I almost went back home before I took the exams.
Most of the problems have been due to reasons which are beyond my control, which just makes things worse. The worst have been the fact that a few people who I cared for deeply have died, and a couple of my closest friends have had to deal with unimaginable tragedies and grief, and that I have been so very ill during the year, partly due to complications from a surgery I had last year.
There have been other, less traumatic problems, like falling out with people who were once close to me, inability to make new friends, (apart from a couple of people), inability to find a job (my fault- I didn't do well in the exams), etc.
There are even more things that have happened, but I'm not going to go into them, because I believe what I have written is long enough as it is and clearly gives an idea of the state I'm in.
I'm still in the new place, planning to apply for jobs again this year, but I seem to have not even a bit of the motivation and drive that I had last year. Most days I can barely get out of bed. I have always had deep faith in God, and I suppose that is one thing that keeps me going ahead.
I cannot believe how much my life has changed in just a year. I used to feel sorry for myself but now I don't because a lot of people I know have gone through far worse than I have.
I won't say I'm lonely, but I feel unable to talk about the emotional pain I'm under these days. I've never been one to talk much about my issues, even with friends around, I've always preferred to be a loner, and honestly, I've found it easier to post this on here than speaking to someone about it.
I am aware that there isn't any help that anyone can offer on this, but if you've come this far, thanks for reading.