K so u know its not healty becuase that constant need of approval can also get you into people pleasing or being a doormate.
a since of belong or to be a part of...is actaully built into us.
I been using the sedona mehtode..
Its a letting go of negative emotions program. Which will get a person into effortless living or effortless relationship ship.
Your bascailly discribing codependecy to the key...becuase your dependent on others approvals to do things. But some people might not have the best of intentions for you..and will use this against you or manipulate you.
Its as if your always in a love earning state...
Where you abandent as a child.
Was your care taker or parents neglected towards you or very critical to you?
Where you abused in any way..mentally, emotional or spiritually?
Good news...theres help for you.
Theres plenty of people that recovered
of this condition.
Where you allow to make mistakes growiing up or you have to do everything perfect?
You do feel like your always walking on eggshells?
Where you allowed to express you emotions..or you where just told to sit down and STFU?
Maybe allow yourself to do something...but fresia it up just for kicks and Just LAUGH . Better yet point out ur fresia ups to other pepole.Lmao
Youre not what you do or dont do...You know this riight?
Noice my writting is all messed up?
Its part of my recovery.
Im not seeking approval from other people.lmao
Sometimes thats why people chose to have a LOVING GOD as their HIGHER POWER....A loving god always there by their side every moment to encourage them with unconditional love.
God loves me no matter what. God approve of me no matter what.
If god is with me...nothing can be against me...
I hope that makes sense...
The reason why that is...its so that you dont let people thats not so nice manipulate you, control you, use you or abuse you.