SeiToSai
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Sometimes I feel like I just want to date anyone. I feel like I'm so open and able to alter myself for others that I could make things work, but whenever I try it never does. It's like I'm the only person in this whole tri-state area who really cares about forming a strong bond with someone. I feel desperate sometimes that I just start searching dozens of websites to try to find a someone who will have me.
I've been fine for months, alone but not lonely. I've been working on myself, making great progress, and looking forward to the future. I made a friend in class and I hung out with her. She halted my weight loss progress and held me up for about a week hanging out with her. It was fine at first but not being 100% eventually screwed me up bad. She's a pretty girl (well she has a great body which guys care about SO much more than face it I've learned), she NEVER wants to stay in the house and it's just run, run, run, drink, drink, drink. It was fun until I realized it wasn't for me, that I didn't feel right not being thin yet, oh and that she was basically a user. She didn't care about our friendship at all, just what I could do for her as in helping her move telling her CONSTANTLY that she was making the right choice in leaving one of her 15 bf's, but the whole she cares about the most apparently.
I went home ASAP, but the damage is done now. I feel totally warped in my head and now I friggin' lonely as hell and I don't know what to do with myself. I guess once I overly starve myself and workout, get over being sick and get back on the weight loss track I'll feel back to normal....I hope.
I've been fine for months, alone but not lonely. I've been working on myself, making great progress, and looking forward to the future. I made a friend in class and I hung out with her. She halted my weight loss progress and held me up for about a week hanging out with her. It was fine at first but not being 100% eventually screwed me up bad. She's a pretty girl (well she has a great body which guys care about SO much more than face it I've learned), she NEVER wants to stay in the house and it's just run, run, run, drink, drink, drink. It was fun until I realized it wasn't for me, that I didn't feel right not being thin yet, oh and that she was basically a user. She didn't care about our friendship at all, just what I could do for her as in helping her move telling her CONSTANTLY that she was making the right choice in leaving one of her 15 bf's, but the whole she cares about the most apparently.
I went home ASAP, but the damage is done now. I feel totally warped in my head and now I friggin' lonely as hell and I don't know what to do with myself. I guess once I overly starve myself and workout, get over being sick and get back on the weight loss track I'll feel back to normal....I hope.