I have this problem that I'm quite apathetic when I'm on my own. I usually sit by my computer, either wasting time or maybe doing something productive.
But that's not the problem, it is that I don't want to do any other things. For example, finding and buying new clothes, furniture--cleaning the apartment, going on trips, or whatever. I just don't feel like doing things like that.
But when I had a girlfriend, I even liked doing the dishes when she was around. I was enthusiastic about getting new clothes, and I would probably take care of the apartment and fix things up. It's like I'm degrading when I'm alone, and it's not like that for my friends. They regularly go and do things on their own. How do they manage? Is there a secret cure?
But that's not the problem, it is that I don't want to do any other things. For example, finding and buying new clothes, furniture--cleaning the apartment, going on trips, or whatever. I just don't feel like doing things like that.
But when I had a girlfriend, I even liked doing the dishes when she was around. I was enthusiastic about getting new clothes, and I would probably take care of the apartment and fix things up. It's like I'm degrading when I'm alone, and it's not like that for my friends. They regularly go and do things on their own. How do they manage? Is there a secret cure?