LeaningIntoTheMuse
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I am convinced that they are not, but convince me otherwise.
nerdygirl said:I think it depends on the level of shyness, as well as the woman. If a guy is a little shy, I find it adorable. If a guy is too shy, there is a good chance that we'll never talk.
AFrozenSoul said:Of course they are. Because women know that shy guys won't say "put out or get out". Women know shy guys don't know anything about dating so the shy guy will always do the 50s thing and pay for the whole meal. The shy guy will give her his trust while she goes out and cheats on him. Then when she lies to him he will believe her.
Shy guys are all wonderful targets for women. Because shy guys can be so easily used and abused. Without shy guys women would have to give equally in all their relationships. So with a shy guy she can give all her sex to a man she is actually attracted to and all her emotions to the shy guy.
AFrozenSoul said:Of course they are. Because women know that shy guys won't say "put out or get out". Women know shy guys don't know anything about dating so the shy guy will always do the 50s thing and pay for the whole meal. The shy guy will give her his trust while she goes out and cheats on him. Then when she lies to him he will believe her.
Shy guys are all wonderful targets for women. Because shy guys can be so easily used and abused. Without shy guys women would have to give equally in all their relationships. So with a shy guy she can give all her sex to a man she is actually attracted to and all her emotions to the shy guy.
sylvestris lybica said:Depends on the woman. I mean, I know it sounds cliche but there is no law of attraction that says no woman will appreciate a shy guy. Given the fact that shy people do end up in successful relationships should be enough evidence. However, I think shy guys are at a huge disadvantage because men are generally expected to make the first move. Initiating the relationship is much harder for the shy guy, but actually maintaining a relationship depends on more factors than just being outgoing.
sylvestris lybica said:Depends on the woman. I mean, I know it sounds cliche but there is no law of attraction that says no woman will appreciate a shy guy. Given the fact that shy people do end up in successful relationships should be enough evidence. However, I think shy guys are at a huge disadvantage because men are generally expected to make the first move. Initiating the relationship is much harder for the shy guy, but actually maintaining a relationship depends on more factors than just being outgoing.
Barbaloot said:AFrozenSoul said:Of course they are. Because women know that shy guys won't say "put out or get out". Women know shy guys don't know anything about dating so the shy guy will always do the 50s thing and pay for the whole meal. The shy guy will give her his trust while she goes out and cheats on him. Then when she lies to him he will believe her.
Shy guys are all wonderful targets for women. Because shy guys can be so easily used and abused. Without shy guys women would have to give equally in all their relationships. So with a shy guy she can give all her sex to a man she is actually attracted to and all her emotions to the shy guy.
Cool story, bro.
LeaningIntoTheMuse said:Ahh!
That is not something I needed to read, FrozenSoul.
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