callista_05
Well-known member
I’m 21 and still a member of the No Boyfriend since Birth Society.
I’ve been close with several guys, but never intimate. All were just mere flirtatious encounters… some were courtships that only last in a really short span of time. All seemed like they were all just ‘not for keeps’.
I’ve devoted my time studying (though I’m not close to a nerd for that matter) and preparing on my career path for 15 years…. I’ve gained friends through time, some of them I already lost contact with, and some of them I speak to every once in a while.
And a lot of them bugs me about getting a ‘special someone’ – as if it’s just like a comfort food that can be easily bought in an ice cream parlor or a candy store.
It’s not much of a concern to me before, but now it really gets too disturbing…It made me paranoid as days pass and more and more people are asking me why am I still ‘single’. Which leaves me disturbed as hell whether I looked too miserable alone or I’m just too Beautiful(haha!) to be one of the few Singles who live in the a world full of couples.
I’m 21, finished studying and all, and somehow trying to get a good jumpstart for my career…I hate the idea of being left in isolation, but then I guess that’s what I am now.
Single and alone.
Should I be distressed about my situation? If you were in my shoes, what would you feel? And what should I do to resolve this? Should I try finding love?
I’ve been close with several guys, but never intimate. All were just mere flirtatious encounters… some were courtships that only last in a really short span of time. All seemed like they were all just ‘not for keeps’.
I’ve devoted my time studying (though I’m not close to a nerd for that matter) and preparing on my career path for 15 years…. I’ve gained friends through time, some of them I already lost contact with, and some of them I speak to every once in a while.
And a lot of them bugs me about getting a ‘special someone’ – as if it’s just like a comfort food that can be easily bought in an ice cream parlor or a candy store.
It’s not much of a concern to me before, but now it really gets too disturbing…It made me paranoid as days pass and more and more people are asking me why am I still ‘single’. Which leaves me disturbed as hell whether I looked too miserable alone or I’m just too Beautiful(haha!) to be one of the few Singles who live in the a world full of couples.
I’m 21, finished studying and all, and somehow trying to get a good jumpstart for my career…I hate the idea of being left in isolation, but then I guess that’s what I am now.
Single and alone.
Should I be distressed about my situation? If you were in my shoes, what would you feel? And what should I do to resolve this? Should I try finding love?