Hope_Reigns
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After less than 2 months split, and after promising us time to see what happens. My ex informs me that he's seeing someone else. Tells me he'll always love me, that he knows we could've worked, but isn't sure if he could be happy enough (he was happy just not super mega happy cause we had a few problems that he refused to talk through).
I tried for a while to talk to him, to salvage things, to get him to work through these things with me, or at least try to see if we can. He refused. Apparently some stranger is a better risk than the girl who he's loved for 9 years, and who's been his best friend as well) So I finally stopped trying and took a very scary step.
I told him that him saying he loves me, and saying we're important to him, means nothing when not backed by actions. That his actions said the opposite. Then I told him that when he decides to treat us better and take us seriously, he knows where I am, then blocked his IMs (he has my phone number)
I hope with all my heart that he does wake up, and shows he doesn't want us lost, but I'm trying not to hold my breath. If he doesn't get in touch with me, I guess it's over
I'll always love him, so so much.. but I can't just stand there and be disregarded like meaningless junk anymore. I just can't. *sighs and walks away*
I tried for a while to talk to him, to salvage things, to get him to work through these things with me, or at least try to see if we can. He refused. Apparently some stranger is a better risk than the girl who he's loved for 9 years, and who's been his best friend as well) So I finally stopped trying and took a very scary step.
I told him that him saying he loves me, and saying we're important to him, means nothing when not backed by actions. That his actions said the opposite. Then I told him that when he decides to treat us better and take us seriously, he knows where I am, then blocked his IMs (he has my phone number)
I hope with all my heart that he does wake up, and shows he doesn't want us lost, but I'm trying not to hold my breath. If he doesn't get in touch with me, I guess it's over
I'll always love him, so so much.. but I can't just stand there and be disregarded like meaningless junk anymore. I just can't. *sighs and walks away*