theenduringchill
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My husband and I just moved to a new city for his job. We have two couple friends in the area whom we rarely see and my husband is out of town a lot. I often go days without having a real conversation with someone in person. I know that I really need to make friends but I'm having trouble.
There is another new guy I work with that seems pretty nice and another man at the gym who has tried to talk to me. The problem is that I'm married and don't want to lead them on or seem like I'm flirting, so whenever they try to talk to me I awkwardly bumble around and quickly find a reason to leave. Is it possible to have male friends when you're happily married?
I know I definitely need female friends as well, but those have been the only two real chances I've had so far.
I'm isolated to the point now where I'm starting to question my judgements.
There is another new guy I work with that seems pretty nice and another man at the gym who has tried to talk to me. The problem is that I'm married and don't want to lead them on or seem like I'm flirting, so whenever they try to talk to me I awkwardly bumble around and quickly find a reason to leave. Is it possible to have male friends when you're happily married?
I know I definitely need female friends as well, but those have been the only two real chances I've had so far.
I'm isolated to the point now where I'm starting to question my judgements.