Hello, my mother made a strange comment that I shouldn’t be sad when she’s not there anymore. She lived her life. Actually it could be a normal mother thing to say but I am concerned. She was in a torture camp for months during the war in Bosnia. Is she might still traumatized even when she’s denying it or are these thoughts melancholic thoughts when you get older ? What would be more likely ? Since it was thirty years ago and she never behaved strange or traumatized to me….