TheLonelyNomad
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Hey fellow buddies.
So I have been dating a girl I have been paired up with, for the last three months.
I like her, and I guess she likes me. Although we went to a basketball game tonight, and while she did seem to cheer and clap, she seemed dismal. I am guessing that she was tired from working all day.
Anyhow, my question is after which date do you guys recommend I start holding her hands while walking in public?
I am soooo stupid. We have been on what, seven dates so far, and I have yet to be "aggressive" enough to hold her hands. Sadly, it's usually the guys who have to initiate the hand holding. Or at least place my arms around her neck.
I am more timid and modest in that I don't want to just "grab" her hands and force her to hold my hands while walking to the movie theater, etc.
However, the good progress, in terms of intimaacy, is that my girlfriend is the one who initiated the "hugs" whenever we meet up for dinner dates, and hugs when we part ways. This started after the third date.
I then initiated the "peck" kiss on her cheek, in addition to the hugs, when we met up about a month ago.
However, I think I have to start holding her hands when we have dinner together. Otherwise, she might dislike me and lose interest.
So I have been dating a girl I have been paired up with, for the last three months.
I like her, and I guess she likes me. Although we went to a basketball game tonight, and while she did seem to cheer and clap, she seemed dismal. I am guessing that she was tired from working all day.
Anyhow, my question is after which date do you guys recommend I start holding her hands while walking in public?
I am soooo stupid. We have been on what, seven dates so far, and I have yet to be "aggressive" enough to hold her hands. Sadly, it's usually the guys who have to initiate the hand holding. Or at least place my arms around her neck.
I am more timid and modest in that I don't want to just "grab" her hands and force her to hold my hands while walking to the movie theater, etc.
However, the good progress, in terms of intimaacy, is that my girlfriend is the one who initiated the "hugs" whenever we meet up for dinner dates, and hugs when we part ways. This started after the third date.
I then initiated the "peck" kiss on her cheek, in addition to the hugs, when we met up about a month ago.
However, I think I have to start holding her hands when we have dinner together. Otherwise, she might dislike me and lose interest.