Personally, I feel that a few problems with expecting real life to be like a Disney movie are
*I lack the ability to converse with animals or plants, let alone get them to help with household chores or share profound wisdom
*I cannot get assistance from fairies, genies, enchanted castles, armies, or dwarfs (7 guys who get together and sing are more likely to be a boy band, anyway)
*I cannot become the child of a Greek god
Now, if you CAN do any of those things, you go ahead and be disappointed in Disney.
Teasing aside, please note that in every Disney movie, people had to overcome tremendous adversity. They did it with somebody who was absolutely ideal for them. If you haven't found your magical romance yet, it's probably because you haven't met the ideal.