Hauntyoueveryday
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I've mentioned this woman before. But I haven't really spoken about it in detail.
I did this short film in July that I wrote,directed and starred in. An actress was it in that at that time I've known for six to seven months. I had her on for another short film and she was going to be my romantic interest. But that short lost funding and I did this one out of pocket.
During the months before this shoot we emailed and texted each other quite a bit. Looking back I haven't texted a woman this much in years.
She lives with her boyfriend and for a while I really didn't look at her sexually. But after spending hours with her on set it changed. I guess her personality got me attracted to her.
For months I've had her in my mind. To the point that after a very shitty birthday (no one wished me happy birthday) I messaged her on facebook. I didn't lay it all on the lines (I didn't ask her out and etc). But I was honest about being emotionally messed, how I didn't want to disrespect her relationship, how I didn't want to let her down, how she inspired the short in a way.
She was very nice in her reply and said she had a great time filming and loved talking to me. I responded with something about inspiration and it was kinda left at that. I've spoken to her a few times since. But it's been about the short only.
The intensity of my thoughts on her have chilled. But I still can't get her out of my mind. My pick up artist peers would say that I am in scarcity and need to meet more women (maybe). But you can't close your heart to the things that you don't want to feel.
So what should I do? She still lives with her boyfriend. Am I mindfucking myself?
I did this short film in July that I wrote,directed and starred in. An actress was it in that at that time I've known for six to seven months. I had her on for another short film and she was going to be my romantic interest. But that short lost funding and I did this one out of pocket.
During the months before this shoot we emailed and texted each other quite a bit. Looking back I haven't texted a woman this much in years.
She lives with her boyfriend and for a while I really didn't look at her sexually. But after spending hours with her on set it changed. I guess her personality got me attracted to her.
For months I've had her in my mind. To the point that after a very shitty birthday (no one wished me happy birthday) I messaged her on facebook. I didn't lay it all on the lines (I didn't ask her out and etc). But I was honest about being emotionally messed, how I didn't want to disrespect her relationship, how I didn't want to let her down, how she inspired the short in a way.
She was very nice in her reply and said she had a great time filming and loved talking to me. I responded with something about inspiration and it was kinda left at that. I've spoken to her a few times since. But it's been about the short only.
The intensity of my thoughts on her have chilled. But I still can't get her out of my mind. My pick up artist peers would say that I am in scarcity and need to meet more women (maybe). But you can't close your heart to the things that you don't want to feel.
So what should I do? She still lives with her boyfriend. Am I mindfucking myself?