It seems like if your single and in your late 30s the pool of people to be friends with dries up. everyone's got a family with kids. I thought it would get better after my 20s (which was really boring and uneventful) but it hasn't . You talk to people and they are just so busy with stuff. with their life. I feel so out of it again. like i'm looking in through a window at what real life should be. i feel like i've been living my life all wrong. maybe things will get better when all these people's kids have grown up and they are empty nesters...maybe then they will not be so busy to go out???