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Rosebolt
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A good day to you. For a while i wanted to share this, but i always feared it would come across as attention seeking. With some encouragement, i figured i could try anyway.
For a long time i've always had a fear of becoming an arrogant person. When i express that fear people usually tell me something along the lines of "you don't become arrogant out of nowhere" or "you need to find a balance."
Of course that is very much true, but the fear still nags at me, especially since i started feeling more confident in recent times. I know confidence and arrogance are two entirely diffirent things, but i guess those lines are kind of blurred to me.
For example, deep in my mind i believe i am quite intelligent and knowledgeable when it comes to psychological matters. But even me typing this out triggers a feeling of "shut up, that's only in your head."
So my question is, if anyone has felt the same, or something similar, and/or if anyone ever thought of me as arrogant and why. (please be honest there, it helps out a lot for me to learn from such mistakes)
Thank you very much for reading.
For a long time i've always had a fear of becoming an arrogant person. When i express that fear people usually tell me something along the lines of "you don't become arrogant out of nowhere" or "you need to find a balance."
Of course that is very much true, but the fear still nags at me, especially since i started feeling more confident in recent times. I know confidence and arrogance are two entirely diffirent things, but i guess those lines are kind of blurred to me.
For example, deep in my mind i believe i am quite intelligent and knowledgeable when it comes to psychological matters. But even me typing this out triggers a feeling of "shut up, that's only in your head."
So my question is, if anyone has felt the same, or something similar, and/or if anyone ever thought of me as arrogant and why. (please be honest there, it helps out a lot for me to learn from such mistakes)
Thank you very much for reading.