Lawrens
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I've always wanted to ask this, it seems that ever since a certain age, I've been afraid of doing just pretty much anything, well not extreme fear, but enough to hinder my ability to be socially active.
For example, I have to make a phone call, I usually would try to practice what I have to say before I do the call, I avoid starting conversation with people, but I welcome them from others, I'm anxious with driving so I never cared to drive after I got my driver's license, I'm not afraid of driving, but instead I fear that I'd get into an accident because I have no sense of danger when i drive.
I don't think I have problems doing all of the above, but sometimes I just rather not, and avoid them, just thinking about them makes me anxious, it just wouldn't go away. I'm anxious in talking to people that I know online through voice chat, because my english isn't perfect, I could, but the anxiety would not go away even when I start, whenever I have to start to do pretty much everything, I have to have it all planned out, think it through and get ready for the worst case scenario.
It's an annoying thing. It feels like I always want to have control of everything and wanted them to be perfect. I perform fine in school, but if however there's a gap inbetween certain actions that allows my brain to think, I'd feel really anxious.
For example, I have to make a phone call, I usually would try to practice what I have to say before I do the call, I avoid starting conversation with people, but I welcome them from others, I'm anxious with driving so I never cared to drive after I got my driver's license, I'm not afraid of driving, but instead I fear that I'd get into an accident because I have no sense of danger when i drive.
I don't think I have problems doing all of the above, but sometimes I just rather not, and avoid them, just thinking about them makes me anxious, it just wouldn't go away. I'm anxious in talking to people that I know online through voice chat, because my english isn't perfect, I could, but the anxiety would not go away even when I start, whenever I have to start to do pretty much everything, I have to have it all planned out, think it through and get ready for the worst case scenario.
It's an annoying thing. It feels like I always want to have control of everything and wanted them to be perfect. I perform fine in school, but if however there's a gap inbetween certain actions that allows my brain to think, I'd feel really anxious.