Zorg
Active member
- Joined
- Jun 12, 2008
- Messages
- 27
- Reaction score
- 0
Title should read "anyone"...
At this point I don't think I'll ever have the courage to ask a girl out to anything ever. I would have done so by now if I was able to. I've been very interested in certain girls, but it doesn't make a difference, I can not do anything about it.
I've heard the platitudes about taking risks and confidence, and while I can intellectualize them I can never actually use the advice and confront the fear. The fear of rejection, of humiliation, of asking a girl out, it is far too great.
This isn't mere melodrama or hyperbole, it's reality. A friend of mine told me that "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take", if only he could understand how hard it is for me to take a shot, because for me it seems impossible at this point.
At this point I don't think I'll ever have the courage to ask a girl out to anything ever. I would have done so by now if I was able to. I've been very interested in certain girls, but it doesn't make a difference, I can not do anything about it.
I've heard the platitudes about taking risks and confidence, and while I can intellectualize them I can never actually use the advice and confront the fear. The fear of rejection, of humiliation, of asking a girl out, it is far too great.
This isn't mere melodrama or hyperbole, it's reality. A friend of mine told me that "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take", if only he could understand how hard it is for me to take a shot, because for me it seems impossible at this point.