jales said:the only thing i see with Colette's method that might be difficult is having sex with a friend..
Why is that? I'm friends with everyone I've ever been intimate with regardless of how "involved" the intimacy was. Is it that you can only enjoy someone sexually and not like them as a person? Or it should be super-dramatic when you have sex and must cut-off all ties afterwards if you choose to no longer see each other.
I just don't get it and I'm not alone on this one. I happen to know a lot of people who feel the same way. But then again I guess we choose to surround ourselves with like-minded people.