I used to take my son out trick or treating every year when he lived at home. Then a couple days later we'd celebrate his birthday.
After that would come Xmas. During Nov. to Jan. I was always broke because I was forever buying gifts for my son. lol
It was a real change since my son left home. Christmas is the worst.
I send money for his birthday and Xmas. But I'm alone for Xmas now and there's no more tree or presents, or fancy dinner. I get very depressed. I am alone and don't know what to do about it. I hate being alone. No son, no friends, just 4 walls and a computer only. I never thought life would changing so drastically. But I never thought my son would leave home so soon. We got along extremely well.
If I wasn't so poor I'd get dressed up in a costume and go to the bar for Halloween. I always enjoyed going out and dancing all night.