SomeoneSomewhere
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I don't know why but when people look at me, I feel like they're staring at an alien creature or at an oddball. I've never felt like I'm just another fellow being they're "just looking at". I feel a cold, distant stare that I can almost feel burning through my skin at times (it doesn't bother me so much now because I no longer care).
The reason I'm putting this in the relationship section and not in the social anxiety/shyness section is because it happens more when girls look at me. I can't tell if a girl is even taking a remote interest in me (and I often end up misinterpreting it) and when a girl looks at me, I just go back to the schoolboy who girls used to stare at because he was weird. And because it feels so distant and cold, I reciprocate it back by looking disinterested and like I don't care.
I don't know if it's all just in my head or if it happens for real but has anyone else here dealt with it? Have any solutions to the problem?
The reason I'm putting this in the relationship section and not in the social anxiety/shyness section is because it happens more when girls look at me. I can't tell if a girl is even taking a remote interest in me (and I often end up misinterpreting it) and when a girl looks at me, I just go back to the schoolboy who girls used to stare at because he was weird. And because it feels so distant and cold, I reciprocate it back by looking disinterested and like I don't care.
I don't know if it's all just in my head or if it happens for real but has anyone else here dealt with it? Have any solutions to the problem?