deshume
New member
Hi all. Im 44. live with my girlfriend of 5 years. have 2 kids (18 & 16) from my prev relationship and have 3 kids with my girl. Going thru a real crap time at the moment after she had an emotional fling with her girlfriend. Luckily i'm still here and we are still together. Love her to death but now doubting my resolve. despite my acceptance, my openness and my sharing with her we are still in a non-intimate relationship that is increasingly soul destroying. Life is truly crap!