Hello, I am new to the group. I am something of a loner in that I have never had that many close friends and no girlfriend. I do have family and some friends who I am close to, but it's not enough. Loneliness has come and gone in my life. Most of the time it hasn't bothered me, but for a variety of reasons (holiday stress, age, unemployment, living situation, work, inability/difficulty in socializing) it has gotten worse over time and seems worse this year. I think I would like to have more close friends and relationships, but I don't know where to start. Thanks for letting me vent, and I'm glad to be part of the group.