TheDude76
Well-known member
Hi,
So, I joined this board to say the following, and see what your thoughts were...
First, about me. I'm 37 years old, and have never had a relationship. I'm admittedly a nerd. This doesn't mean that I play video games, or sit in front of a computer for hours outside of work. Rather, I still have a curiosity about the world that most folks my age have traded in for Facebook, Dancing With The Stars, and sports bars. I visit a local observatory weekly, I recently captained an organized sport team, I've started taking taekwondo lessons, and I go for long walks/hikes quite often. In regards to looks, I am overweight, but I dress well, and I don't look like the Crypt Keeper.
All of that being said, I've haven't met any single women in my age range doing any activities outside of work. Not a one. I've also tried online dating, talking to women in public (every permutation of a conversation starter), joining other group activities, etc. I don't know if it's due to my geographic region (the Northeast, way uptight), or my age group (Gen-X), but in my neck of the woods, no one my age does anything but talk about crap on the TV and constantly mess with social media.
So, am I doing anything wrong, or are my expectations of perpetual singledom right on the money? I feel incredibly stupid, and subsequently depressed, for having not met anyone by this time in my life. I'm at wits end regarding how to meet someone.
Thanks for any advice,
The Dude
So, I joined this board to say the following, and see what your thoughts were...
First, about me. I'm 37 years old, and have never had a relationship. I'm admittedly a nerd. This doesn't mean that I play video games, or sit in front of a computer for hours outside of work. Rather, I still have a curiosity about the world that most folks my age have traded in for Facebook, Dancing With The Stars, and sports bars. I visit a local observatory weekly, I recently captained an organized sport team, I've started taking taekwondo lessons, and I go for long walks/hikes quite often. In regards to looks, I am overweight, but I dress well, and I don't look like the Crypt Keeper.
All of that being said, I've haven't met any single women in my age range doing any activities outside of work. Not a one. I've also tried online dating, talking to women in public (every permutation of a conversation starter), joining other group activities, etc. I don't know if it's due to my geographic region (the Northeast, way uptight), or my age group (Gen-X), but in my neck of the woods, no one my age does anything but talk about crap on the TV and constantly mess with social media.
So, am I doing anything wrong, or are my expectations of perpetual singledom right on the money? I feel incredibly stupid, and subsequently depressed, for having not met anyone by this time in my life. I'm at wits end regarding how to meet someone.
Thanks for any advice,
The Dude