ordinaryDude
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Hi,
I'm 27 and I never had any relationship, not even barely a date. But, year after year, I've had crushes, infatuation time and time again. These days I feel sick of this attraction that I feel. I DO NOT know for God's sake why I feel attracted.
There's no reason for me to feel attracted, I only see these pretty girls. They are pretty like pictures, easy on the eye, but I just don't understand what I'm gonna do with any of these girls. I just can't imagine myself spending any meaningful time with anyone of them. I mean don't have any plans for them. For example, I can get friendly with a cool guy of similar interest because the reason is spending quality fun time, sharing and exchanging knowledge. I don't see any such reason for dating a girl.
So, it annoys me that I feel really attracted to a girl, and it annoys more because I'm not attractive one bit. Also it distracts me, I would just wanna focus on myself and my own inner world. Attraction towards opposite gender is an unwanted distraction which hampers my motivation and my focus.
Hence, I wanna get rid of all the attraction I feel towards a girl. Do you have any idea how to do that?
I'm 27 and I never had any relationship, not even barely a date. But, year after year, I've had crushes, infatuation time and time again. These days I feel sick of this attraction that I feel. I DO NOT know for God's sake why I feel attracted.
There's no reason for me to feel attracted, I only see these pretty girls. They are pretty like pictures, easy on the eye, but I just don't understand what I'm gonna do with any of these girls. I just can't imagine myself spending any meaningful time with anyone of them. I mean don't have any plans for them. For example, I can get friendly with a cool guy of similar interest because the reason is spending quality fun time, sharing and exchanging knowledge. I don't see any such reason for dating a girl.
So, it annoys me that I feel really attracted to a girl, and it annoys more because I'm not attractive one bit. Also it distracts me, I would just wanna focus on myself and my own inner world. Attraction towards opposite gender is an unwanted distraction which hampers my motivation and my focus.
Hence, I wanna get rid of all the attraction I feel towards a girl. Do you have any idea how to do that?