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insanelyloneley
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Dating sites have all been a waste of time for me. I guess I can try to pickup a random woman in public, but that always came off as creepy to me.
insanelyloneley said:I should clarify by "pickup" I mean "ask on a date" and not "have a one-night-stand with."
insanelyloneley said:I should clarify by "pickup" I mean "ask on a date" and not "have a one-night-stand with."
Don't worry about it,I sometimes spell my real name wrong!
DaveIsLonely said:You can't socialise at all without encountering alcohol at every turn. You don't have to drink, but you will be an outcast in many social situations if you don't. The reason is simple; Most people, especially women, only drink socially--they have no interest or desire to consume alcohol, only a desire to fit in socially. People who don't drink are essentially sending the message that they're better than other people who are sheep in their social attitude and behaviour.
insanelyloneley said:Lonesome Crow, are you talking to me, or are you just ranting?
nerdygirl said:*blink* Is it a generation thing? I have no experience with a world in which you must drink in order not to be ostracized. I know quite a few people who don't drink alcohol. At parties or clubs, they just grab a soda if they're thirsty. Heck, I used to go clubbing when I was 18, and I just didn't drink. I still got on the dance floor and met guys- and I did not glance at their table to see what they'd been drinking! It's not about the beverage in your hand, it's about the words in your mouth.
Code S.O.L said:But that's just it. Without the beverage in hand, there are no words in my mouth. Unfortunately, I needed that sort of courage to have mixed in properly with the said crowd. But I'm no fool. I know that alcoholic courage is no substitute to the real thing. I'm far from having that sort of natural confidence, but I've shamed myself too much for having faked it for a group I was merely riding shotgun to in the first place. Hence, why I've exiled for now.
nerdygirl said:Erm... I wasn't addressing you. I was responding to the original post, as well as the notion that people seem "creepy" unless they have alcohol. From my understanding, your choice to drink wasn't because you wanted to look like everybody else. You did it because it made you relax enough to be more engaging. That's a little different.
Ronald said:I would also suggest getting involved in groups that share your interests.
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