how do you 'not' love someone?

[the-alchemist]

Don't waste this opportunity. You can feel love and attachment. Despite normal testosterone levels, I haven't truly felt love and attachment to anyone for a long time, I cannot feel love. And believe me, it sucks...hard

You should count yourself lucky

 

[Stacey1]

I believe that 'unloving' someone is really difficult especially if you already built your world around your partner. You either get out of the relationship for a while and assess your feelings or you still hang on.

 

[allanh]

The ability to "not love someone" or "unlove someone" is something I desire..... it will come in very handy

 

[beans]

The ability to "not love someone" or "unlove someone" is something I desire..... it will come in very handy

It's kind of easy. Think about a really unattractive girl that you cannot possibly love or fall for and take it from there. See, its not that hard rite?

 

[allanh]

what about getting out after you fall in to it, beans? That's what I need.

 

[beans]

what about getting out after you fall in to it, beans? That's what I need.

replace with someone new.

 

[the-alchemist]

I think the TS is kinda stupid. Wanting to unlove someone....

Gosh, I would give everything to be able to feel love and attachment to a person. Being dead inside while simultaneously craving love is an indescribable torture, a complete inability to care. fresia, now, if a friend of mine would get run over by a car and die in front of my eyes, I wouldn't care. I would just go move on with the rest of the day as if nothing happened. That's how apathetic I have become

Don't do it TS

 

[beans]

I think the TS is kinda stupid. Wanting to unlove someone....

Gosh, I would give everything to be able to feel love and attachment to a person. Being dead inside while simultaneously craving love is an indescribable torture, a complete inability to care. fresia, now, if a friend of mine would get run over by a car and die, I wouldn't care. I would just go move on with the rest of the day as if nothing happened. That's how apathetic I have become

I agree, I think you're digging your grave when you sell your confidence like that. Loving someone who doesn't love you back?? That's worse than prostituting. At least prostitutes do it for cash.

 

[Stacey1]

what about getting out after you fall in to it, beans? That's what I need.

replace with someone new.

hehehe always easier said than done

 

[AFrozenSoul]

:S well slowly change your lifestyle.... that is all you can really do.