Elaeagnus said:
lonely2beeme said:
so i have webcam ,i have a mic ,pm me for email addy if you want to talk to me.
life is too short
FYI- don't forget that not everyone has those or is comfortable using them. I don't have a webcam or a mic, and I can't get any sort of instant messaging to work through my firewalls. Also, we are all spread out across the globe, so we're all on at completely different times. I guess my point is that we shouldn't feel bad if all we get are replies in the open threads, or a PM from time to time. I think there are lots of people who read the posts and are thinking about everyone here.
yep certainly its not for everyone but in reply to mimizu who asked
"People come here to speak about how lonely there are. "Please talk to me". "I am so lonely." "I am so bored." So here we all are, lonely and bored... why can't we help each other and become friends? Maybe it's just me being left out again..."
im just saying i agree ,why arent we all more active in trying to be friends,we all are lonely right? mimizu isnt being left out as much as most dont wanna be "known" want to keep thier identity secret,i have nothing to be ashamed about, doubt it will be found out but if anything surfaces oh well,that could happen from any venue in life ,close friends ex bf ,ex husband even might post personal things ,pics etc. cant hide out foreve thinking what if??
most who can afford and comp plus internet hookup can afford the $5 splurge on a mic,maybe skip that mcdonalds meal today ?as far as a mic stopping someone cheap ones cost $5 mine costs $10 ita a headset headphones and mic for privacy from my kids,webcam the one on the laptop cheap $10 the one on my desktop $80 the bestwas a present,
firewall settngs can be changd to use messenger services you can get one that will work there are several out that many people use voice programs. i use one called teamspeak that is easy,try and get help from computer savvy members for that,also you can use TS heres link
http://ww.goteamspeak.com
its a very small program used by gamers mostly its light so as not to cause lagg while playing ,very easy to use no one has problems with firewalla but it is a voice program not a typinng one and someone has to host a server whilemembers just use a client.as far as being all over the globe thats even bette that means when you get those midnight anxiety attacks usually someone somewhere is online my day ar your nights your nights my days ,better than being alone all night.
s my point is you only limit yourself to how many friends you make on here to how willing you are to put yourself out there and how willing the person is you approach, but coming to the forum was a step,so take another ,send a pm ,request a chat,find out how to learn more or talkwith people you feel have something in common with .
remeber you are only as happy as you allow yourself to be.