OK I have this friend that I have been really attracted to/ loved for almost 4 years now. 4 years ago we had a brief hook-up, then she and he girl friend decided to close their "open relationship". So We never really saw each except every once in a while. But I could never act normal around her cause I still had all these big feelings.
SO they finally broke up- im single she's single- We have shared beautiful time together and kissed some- But 1st we wanted to try and be good friends only. My will is weak around this, because I had to admit to myself that I really love her. Which means that to be a true friend I needed to tell her that too.
So I did-
I told her I couldn't have the stress on my shoulders of just being her friend.
She thinks I no longer love her "uncondtionally" now, and I guess just wants me to forget about my feelings.
So I had to stop being her friend even though she writed me to say we should figure things out.
WTF! What is there to figure out?
Help!
SO they finally broke up- im single she's single- We have shared beautiful time together and kissed some- But 1st we wanted to try and be good friends only. My will is weak around this, because I had to admit to myself that I really love her. Which means that to be a true friend I needed to tell her that too.
So I did-
I told her I couldn't have the stress on my shoulders of just being her friend.
She thinks I no longer love her "uncondtionally" now, and I guess just wants me to forget about my feelings.
So I had to stop being her friend even though she writed me to say we should figure things out.
WTF! What is there to figure out?
Help!