This might be a little different post that you are used to...but it's the flip side of the loneliness coin...
My roomate is usually drunk by the time I get home from work and I just cant stand to be around him anymore.
He and I were good friends for a while before he moved in my house (I live with parents). Now he has absolutely no other friends besides me. We got along fine then but in the months he's lived here I realized why each and every one of his friends and acquaintances pushed him away. Yes he's an alcoholic. But his problems are also weak social skills (not to be confused with shyness, just he doesn't communicate in a friendly way). He also has a very 'thin skin' and when he's drunk he'll take things you say in the wrong way and suddenly go in a rage, or get frustrated over almost anything. He punched his last best friend in the face. (which he wouldn't dare do to me I know I could easily take him) And then he always complains about having nobody....
I don't know what to do with him. I've called him out on the drinking a few times and told him he was sensitive. And I just can't hang out with him anymore. I try not to totally blow him off because that would be the worst. I want to just kick him out of my house but feel too sorry for him.
Especially since I've helped him in the last 3 months when he needed me and gave him so much encouragement to succeed in getting his CDL.
(truck driving license)
Aaaaaaaaaaggggggh! Help me!!!
My roomate is usually drunk by the time I get home from work and I just cant stand to be around him anymore.
He and I were good friends for a while before he moved in my house (I live with parents). Now he has absolutely no other friends besides me. We got along fine then but in the months he's lived here I realized why each and every one of his friends and acquaintances pushed him away. Yes he's an alcoholic. But his problems are also weak social skills (not to be confused with shyness, just he doesn't communicate in a friendly way). He also has a very 'thin skin' and when he's drunk he'll take things you say in the wrong way and suddenly go in a rage, or get frustrated over almost anything. He punched his last best friend in the face. (which he wouldn't dare do to me I know I could easily take him) And then he always complains about having nobody....
I don't know what to do with him. I've called him out on the drinking a few times and told him he was sensitive. And I just can't hang out with him anymore. I try not to totally blow him off because that would be the worst. I want to just kick him out of my house but feel too sorry for him.
Especially since I've helped him in the last 3 months when he needed me and gave him so much encouragement to succeed in getting his CDL.
(truck driving license)
Aaaaaaaaaaggggggh! Help me!!!