i just need to clear the air about something that happened on this forum.
i feel so bad that someone dissed the 2nd thread i posted.
im a new member. the first thread i posted was about my deepest worries. when i saw the replies to my thread, i was touched that people took such time and effot to reply. i had bottled these feelings up for so long so i felt a bit relieved when i talked about them.
out of appreciation, i posted another thread to those that replied. i dont knw if i broke anyrules by posting it on a new thread and not on that same thread. i just felt that once someone looks at a thread and replies, he/she may not look at it again. i just wanted to make sure they saw it, thats why i did what i did. only for someone to come out the blues and say my thread had troll all over it. he went ahead to analyze the faults and compared it to my former one.
the whole thing bothered me, i felt so bad and i started wondering what i did wrong. i later realised he was reffering to my spellings.
i honestly dont understand why he behaved in such a way. maybe he did not realize im real, i came here in pains and maybe he feels its just a little thing but its such little things im sensitive to. such a thing cld have discouraged me from posting another thread because he messed up the previous one.
Anyway about my spellings, i used a phone to post that thread. and where i come from, we are very fond of shortening our words wen typing messages on phone. of cause i shortened my words to avoid to much stress on my fingers. that why my spellings were like that. i thought that's how its also don in other parts of the world, which was why it took me a long time to figure out what he was talking about.
thank you minus for standing up for me, but in my country, english is the official language. we were colonised by the britons.
To all those out there. just in case you wana diss someone, remember that the people here are real, and what you say to them goes a very long way. we are in pains for goodness sake and when we come here, its for comfort, we dont need need you to add to our sorrows.
i feel so bad that someone dissed the 2nd thread i posted.
im a new member. the first thread i posted was about my deepest worries. when i saw the replies to my thread, i was touched that people took such time and effot to reply. i had bottled these feelings up for so long so i felt a bit relieved when i talked about them.
out of appreciation, i posted another thread to those that replied. i dont knw if i broke anyrules by posting it on a new thread and not on that same thread. i just felt that once someone looks at a thread and replies, he/she may not look at it again. i just wanted to make sure they saw it, thats why i did what i did. only for someone to come out the blues and say my thread had troll all over it. he went ahead to analyze the faults and compared it to my former one.
the whole thing bothered me, i felt so bad and i started wondering what i did wrong. i later realised he was reffering to my spellings.
i honestly dont understand why he behaved in such a way. maybe he did not realize im real, i came here in pains and maybe he feels its just a little thing but its such little things im sensitive to. such a thing cld have discouraged me from posting another thread because he messed up the previous one.
Anyway about my spellings, i used a phone to post that thread. and where i come from, we are very fond of shortening our words wen typing messages on phone. of cause i shortened my words to avoid to much stress on my fingers. that why my spellings were like that. i thought that's how its also don in other parts of the world, which was why it took me a long time to figure out what he was talking about.
thank you minus for standing up for me, but in my country, english is the official language. we were colonised by the britons.
To all those out there. just in case you wana diss someone, remember that the people here are real, and what you say to them goes a very long way. we are in pains for goodness sake and when we come here, its for comfort, we dont need need you to add to our sorrows.