DrFlashman
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At some point, usually 3 to 6 months into a relationship, I always find myself getting bored and frustrated with the person. It has nothing to do with sex; I have no trouble with monogamy. It's more of a mental thing. I get bored with the person's mind. I'm in my early 30s, and every relationship I've been in since I was 19 I've been the one to walk out.
However, I do REALLY want to settle down and find someone to be with and share my life with. I think I'd be a good husband & father. But...if I get bored with someone after 6 months, that's kind of a problem!
I'm big enough to admit the problem probably lies with me. Fine....but WTF?? How come other people can be in loving, committed relationships with a peer and partner, and I can't? Am I unwilling to give myself to someone? Unwilling to be loved?
Any thoughts, suggestions, answers??
However, I do REALLY want to settle down and find someone to be with and share my life with. I think I'd be a good husband & father. But...if I get bored with someone after 6 months, that's kind of a problem!
I'm big enough to admit the problem probably lies with me. Fine....but WTF?? How come other people can be in loving, committed relationships with a peer and partner, and I can't? Am I unwilling to give myself to someone? Unwilling to be loved?
Any thoughts, suggestions, answers??