I used to be a manager. Sale people or clients would come visit me almost everyday.
In bussiness most of the time it felt very intminating to me...will, becuase i had to wear
a different hat and BEHAVE
Most of the sale people were drop dead goregous women in thier bussiness outfits.
The women would present themselves and whatever products and services they were
trying to sell me. At the sametime..I also had to tell them what I want.lmao
At the sametime I also had to bid for contracts or deal with my clients.
So in a way I was a sale person. I had to sell them me...bascailly.
The same prinicples build repore..becuase my company didnt offer any service
that they couldnt get anywhere else. It was me...my words and integrity.
And a lot of times my clients are very demanding. I had to jump through
fucken hoops and remain calm.
At the sametime I also had a crew of assistence.
Well...they were all women.lmao
I also had to go through a learning process of working and communicating
with women. It works better in my favor when I'm nice to the ladies
rather than just thow honeysuckle on thier desk and telling them to just get it done.
I learned not to stand while they're sitting down at thier desk...it's inteminating to them
I learned not to stand behind thier sholders as they're working.
Believe or not...when I talk to my assistance I'm kneeling on my knees at thier
desk next to them..as if I'm poposing to them. They co-operate better.
Plus i always make it a habit to compliments the ladies everyday...becuase sometimes
they'll have bad days....it puts them in a better mood or create a less stressful enviorment to
work in.
So when i socilize it's realitively child's play. it's like the volume got turned
down 5 knotch.
Compliment people also works...
Simple key words such as..How are you FEELING today?