Innerpeace
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I"m 23 and never been on a date lol. Anyways in the other thread I made I was texting this girl I met in my university class in December and I got her to text me back and she said she is free tomorrow to meet up with me.
in December the last 2 weeks of classes (she is graduated now) we began talking and I drove her back home and we studied together a bit. I haven't seen her since Dec 8 but she sent me a merry christmas text. I also texted her two weeks ago and I texted her again today and today she finally said she is available for tomorrow said she was busy till now. she said " hey we should really meet up soon i'm free tomorrow"
anyways that was a good sign. thing is I'm not sure if she is being friends with me or if she likes me more hard to tell.
so tomorrow when she calls me or when I call her i'm thinking of telling her to have lunch together at maybe a sushi place or whatever somewhere where we can sit down and talk. is this a good idea?
I'm confused though I don't know if this is a date or just having lunch with a "friend".
also should I offer to pay for her the lunch.
and should I ask her to lunch or dinner? i'm thinking lunch will be less intimidating.
and is my idea of a sushi restaurant a bad idea?
any other tips i'm kind of nervous as I have never had a girlfriend and I don't really have any friends either so I'm not sure what the proper thing to do is.
oh and also should I at least offer to pick her up? what if she says no thanks I can drive? she has a car. but I want to offer to come pick her up at her house.
in December the last 2 weeks of classes (she is graduated now) we began talking and I drove her back home and we studied together a bit. I haven't seen her since Dec 8 but she sent me a merry christmas text. I also texted her two weeks ago and I texted her again today and today she finally said she is available for tomorrow said she was busy till now. she said " hey we should really meet up soon i'm free tomorrow"
anyways that was a good sign. thing is I'm not sure if she is being friends with me or if she likes me more hard to tell.
so tomorrow when she calls me or when I call her i'm thinking of telling her to have lunch together at maybe a sushi place or whatever somewhere where we can sit down and talk. is this a good idea?
I'm confused though I don't know if this is a date or just having lunch with a "friend".
also should I offer to pay for her the lunch.
and should I ask her to lunch or dinner? i'm thinking lunch will be less intimidating.
and is my idea of a sushi restaurant a bad idea?
any other tips i'm kind of nervous as I have never had a girlfriend and I don't really have any friends either so I'm not sure what the proper thing to do is.
oh and also should I at least offer to pick her up? what if she says no thanks I can drive? she has a car. but I want to offer to come pick her up at her house.