Cooljohn
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Hi everyone. I'm Cooljohn and I'm a 36 year old male. I am extremely lonely and the pain is becoming more and more excruciating every day. I'm so happy that I came across this site.
I was born with a minor disability (a missing forearm). This has never stopped me in accomplishing anything that I wanted to. I went to university and majored in the Life Sciences. I am presently a high school teacher.
My major problem seems to be connecting with women to establish a romantic relationhip. Now, I am often told that I am handsome, intelligent, caring, loving, understanding, confident, friendly, honest, etc. However, I've never had a serious courtship with anyone from my country (I'm from the Caribbean), although I yearn for one. The only girlfriend that I had was a long-distance relationship with a lady abroad but that didn't work out.
When I meet ladies in my country interactions usually follow a certain pattern. They meet me, start to become friendly with me for a while and then they start pulling away and act as if I did them something. They don't give me any explanation. All I get is excuses and lies. However, when I see them interact with other guys they don't act that way.
As I walk about doing my daily activities, I see so many couples. I see guys who I know don't have my qualities being successful in obtaining romantic relationships.
Sometimes I wonder if something is wrong with me and nobody wants me. I understand that sometimes one would get rejected. But all the time?
I was told by some people that it is because of my arm. But would this be a problem for most women who I meet?
I'm 36 years old and I know that I would be a great boyfriend and maybe one day a husband and father and I wish that some lady would give me the chance to enter into her life.
I hope that I could make some friends on this site and gain some support because right now I feel as I I'm dying emotionally.I feel so alienated. I feel that no one wants what I have to offer (sigh). I wish that I could be accepted, trusted and loved in a committed relationship. I would definitely return that love 200% and more. Thanks for reading my post and I hope that I communicate with you all soon.
I was born with a minor disability (a missing forearm). This has never stopped me in accomplishing anything that I wanted to. I went to university and majored in the Life Sciences. I am presently a high school teacher.
My major problem seems to be connecting with women to establish a romantic relationhip. Now, I am often told that I am handsome, intelligent, caring, loving, understanding, confident, friendly, honest, etc. However, I've never had a serious courtship with anyone from my country (I'm from the Caribbean), although I yearn for one. The only girlfriend that I had was a long-distance relationship with a lady abroad but that didn't work out.
When I meet ladies in my country interactions usually follow a certain pattern. They meet me, start to become friendly with me for a while and then they start pulling away and act as if I did them something. They don't give me any explanation. All I get is excuses and lies. However, when I see them interact with other guys they don't act that way.
As I walk about doing my daily activities, I see so many couples. I see guys who I know don't have my qualities being successful in obtaining romantic relationships.
Sometimes I wonder if something is wrong with me and nobody wants me. I understand that sometimes one would get rejected. But all the time?
I was told by some people that it is because of my arm. But would this be a problem for most women who I meet?
I'm 36 years old and I know that I would be a great boyfriend and maybe one day a husband and father and I wish that some lady would give me the chance to enter into her life.
I hope that I could make some friends on this site and gain some support because right now I feel as I I'm dying emotionally.I feel so alienated. I feel that no one wants what I have to offer (sigh). I wish that I could be accepted, trusted and loved in a committed relationship. I would definitely return that love 200% and more. Thanks for reading my post and I hope that I communicate with you all soon.