cheers for the answers.
I think 'change' is the best answer, as it is constant.
As for family and friends, i dont consider them permanent
to be honest, my family have completely betrayed me. I dont have family as far as I'm concerned from here on in, its just me, im alone.
my parents are never happy for me, they hate it when I succeed with a revengence, and they discourage me away from friends who care about me, and lecture me about stopping studying or doing things i really like
once im finished the course im struggling to achieve and keep, my family are gone, cos any man or friend that comes in my life they also discourage
they hate when im intimate and happy with someting or have goals or directions, be it jobs, career, friends, men, hobbies, clothes, free time to myself to embrace...you name it, they get jealous and try to take it away ...