ConfusedLoner
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This is the first time I've ever been in a long term, long distance relationship. We have been together for about 8 months now and we are completely exclusive. I trust her and she trusts me. My GF is very outgoing and enjoys getting drunk every once in a while, but the problem is that she forgets everything when she gets drunk. I've never been the type to mind or stress out about stuff, but it really makes me uncomfortable when she gets drunk, especially because I'm not there...(am i being unreasonable?). It's not that I dont trust her, I do... but I know what alcohol can do to people. When I confronted her about it, she said I was being overbearing and she wants to do what she wants to do and its her decision if she wants to get drunk or not..She said she doesnt want to feel restricted.. Am I being overprotective? unreasonable? What should I do? I've tried getting over it, but I cant shake that uncomfortable feeling every time she does get drunk. I'm asking for an honest answer not something that will make me feel better.. Thank you all for your input.