I've been dating this girl for a few weeks now and I like her a lot more than the last seven people I've dated. We click and get along really well. I've been excited to see where this will go. But, after the last date she just started completely ignoring me. At first, I wasn't worried at all since she has a really busy school/work schedule (as do I, most of the time) and so I chilled. Now that it has been three days, I'm kind of uneasy.
We sort of made plans for this past Friday, but it was more centered around whether either of us had our schoolwork completely finished. I wasn't perturbed when that didn't happen, so I Facebook messaged her (when I called her, her phone went straight to answering machine, no ringing) to offer up an alternative. She hasn't responded and I've seen her online a bunch of times. I got really paranoid, so I checked her okcupid profile and saw that the last time she was on was the day after our last date (!)
I haven't been flooding her with texts (I've sent her two in the past four days), or phone calls (total of one), so I'm not trying to be clingy at all. She's a really cool chick and we had a nice kiss at the end of our last date (I know this isn't indicative of anything), so I haven't been feeling like she's trying to get rid of me until now. I don't want negative thinking to ruin what could be really great, but I also don't want to be a naive idiot who keeps trying for someone who's already done with me. I'm not going to try to contact her for the rest of the weekend.
Also, I didn't know where to put this in, but on our last date her phone got soaked in water because she spilled a whole bottle of it in her purse. I figured that it was fried and that was the reason for the radio silence. Then, I started drawing conclusions and became the anxiety-ridden mess that is typing this question.
Is she trying to hint that I'm not hot stuff to her anymore?
We sort of made plans for this past Friday, but it was more centered around whether either of us had our schoolwork completely finished. I wasn't perturbed when that didn't happen, so I Facebook messaged her (when I called her, her phone went straight to answering machine, no ringing) to offer up an alternative. She hasn't responded and I've seen her online a bunch of times. I got really paranoid, so I checked her okcupid profile and saw that the last time she was on was the day after our last date (!)
I haven't been flooding her with texts (I've sent her two in the past four days), or phone calls (total of one), so I'm not trying to be clingy at all. She's a really cool chick and we had a nice kiss at the end of our last date (I know this isn't indicative of anything), so I haven't been feeling like she's trying to get rid of me until now. I don't want negative thinking to ruin what could be really great, but I also don't want to be a naive idiot who keeps trying for someone who's already done with me. I'm not going to try to contact her for the rest of the weekend.
Also, I didn't know where to put this in, but on our last date her phone got soaked in water because she spilled a whole bottle of it in her purse. I figured that it was fried and that was the reason for the radio silence. Then, I started drawing conclusions and became the anxiety-ridden mess that is typing this question.
Is she trying to hint that I'm not hot stuff to her anymore?