Hi.
My neighbor upstairs is that kind of idiot who plays some sort of "music" real loud.
The problem is that I can't invite any female to my place because of that.
Everything goes well, sometimes great until they're here. But once that noise ruins a romantic evening and I can't do anything about it, - it is over immediately.
The last one was at least honest enough. She said, "What kind of man you are if you can't even show me a good time?"
The only female I know who has no issue with that and who doesn't despise me because of that is my friend. She has a husband who is my good acquaintance, too. They don't think bad of me just because I can't put my neighbor in his place. But they're friends.
So, yesterday was the forth time I got dumped because I wasn't "man enough".
I think that's too much evidence to be dismissed as anecdotal.
If I was at a female's place, I wouldn't judge her if there were any inconveniences and she couldn't sort them out for my pleasure. After all, we're all humans and can't get everything perfect all the time. Not to mention that I would be interested in her and not her surroundings.
But obviously, as a male I'm expected (required even) to sort honeysuckle out simply because of my gender. And that "we're all humans" fancy talk doesn't apply anymore.
In my book, that's sexism.
My neighbor upstairs is that kind of idiot who plays some sort of "music" real loud.
The problem is that I can't invite any female to my place because of that.
Everything goes well, sometimes great until they're here. But once that noise ruins a romantic evening and I can't do anything about it, - it is over immediately.
The last one was at least honest enough. She said, "What kind of man you are if you can't even show me a good time?"
The only female I know who has no issue with that and who doesn't despise me because of that is my friend. She has a husband who is my good acquaintance, too. They don't think bad of me just because I can't put my neighbor in his place. But they're friends.
So, yesterday was the forth time I got dumped because I wasn't "man enough".
I think that's too much evidence to be dismissed as anecdotal.
If I was at a female's place, I wouldn't judge her if there were any inconveniences and she couldn't sort them out for my pleasure. After all, we're all humans and can't get everything perfect all the time. Not to mention that I would be interested in her and not her surroundings.
But obviously, as a male I'm expected (required even) to sort honeysuckle out simply because of my gender. And that "we're all humans" fancy talk doesn't apply anymore.
In my book, that's sexism.