ThinkPositive
Well-known member
It sounds really simple, but "It's OK to be lonely" really set in my mind today and it's been helpful.
I don't know if anyone else has this problem, but the thing that really compounds my loneliness is that I have a tendency to think that this is some sort of personality flaw or weakness that I need to overcome. I try too hard to distract myself, and then I get angry at myself when the bad lonely & sad thoughts creep up on me anyway.
But you know what? I have **** good reason to be lonely right now, so I spent the day just allowing myself to mope. Obviously this is not good to do long-term, but it actually made me feel better today to just feel OK being lonely. Tomorrow, I will keep working on not being so lonely, but because I don't want to be lonely, not because I think there is something wrong with me for feeling that way. No need to make things more complicated than they should be.
I hope this helps someone else.
Happy 4th of July to fellow Americans out there! I am going to go watch fireworks by myself, and it will be a bit cold and lonely, but I am going to be okay with it.
I don't know if anyone else has this problem, but the thing that really compounds my loneliness is that I have a tendency to think that this is some sort of personality flaw or weakness that I need to overcome. I try too hard to distract myself, and then I get angry at myself when the bad lonely & sad thoughts creep up on me anyway.
But you know what? I have **** good reason to be lonely right now, so I spent the day just allowing myself to mope. Obviously this is not good to do long-term, but it actually made me feel better today to just feel OK being lonely. Tomorrow, I will keep working on not being so lonely, but because I don't want to be lonely, not because I think there is something wrong with me for feeling that way. No need to make things more complicated than they should be.
I hope this helps someone else.
Happy 4th of July to fellow Americans out there! I am going to go watch fireworks by myself, and it will be a bit cold and lonely, but I am going to be okay with it.