Just introducing lil' ol' me

[Savage86]

Hey guys/gals.

Not really sure what to put on here but here it goes anyway. I am a 28 year old male living in the UK. I am fit and healthy, have 2 kids who I love and adore. All sounding good so far, right!? Well, the thing is I'm empty on the inside. When I was younger I was painfully shy and avoided speaking and socialising with people like the plague. Though I am older now and no longer class myself as shy I still feel unable to form any kind of connection with anyone. I am very socially awkward and have many self esteem issues. I just have no idea how to socialise with people and pretty much feel I am unworthy of another human beings love and time.
I don't sit around feeling sorry for myself all day, I work full time, I work out a lot, I'm capable of finding distractions but once there are no more distractions I am left with the over whelming feeling of emptyness and loneliness. Sometimes being lonely doesn't bother me, and some times it bothers me...

Anyway, I look forward to reading/posting on this forum and am looking forward to finding out how other users deal with similar issues to mine. Thanks guys.

 

[Alma lost her spoon]

Hi Savage,

Welcome to the forum.

I understand what you mean about the loneliness kicking in at times when we forget to fill our time with other things to keep us distracted. I've found the members here are helpful, approachable & friendly-hope you enjoy being here too.

 

[Minus]

Welcome

 

[Omnipotent Soul]

Hello Savage86. Welcome to the forum.

 

[Mr Seal The Albatros]

Haha. You know what? I think we both might have the same problem! You sound like a pretty cool guy actually. Hope this place can help with your problems.

 

[gabriel20]

Hi Savage, welcome,many good people on here who are always willing to give advice and also listen.

Gabriel.

 

[ladyforsaken]

Hello Savage, welcome to the forum.

 

[Punisher]

Hi Savage

 

[LonesomeLoner]

Welcome to the forum.

 

[wolvesjr]

Hi Savage! Welcome!