hellopanda
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Well hello there.
I'll be the first to admit I've never had any serious trauma in my life that made me the way I am today. I was simply born with an inclination towards the antisocial. Perhaps I am a misanthropist, but I tend to not like a lot of the people I meet. After years of being a loner, I was able to make some surface friends in the later years of high school, but after going off to college have lost the shallow connection I had with them. The worst thing is that I don't even feel particularly sad about it.
Were most people just born with a natural instinct and knack for socializing with others and integrating? I don't always feel like I'm missing out, as socializing often seems rather pointless to me. However sometimes when I hear about all the fun other people have or realize that I'm always alone with no one to talk to so often, it feels frightening. It's in those moments that I feel the enormity of my loneliness and isolation.
I'm not going to categorize myself as suicidal or depressed. Most people would say that I'm a very nice person, but that would be it. I think it's because they realize that beneath my 'nice' exterior there's a gaping hole where a person should be.
Does anyone else ever feel so utterly empty?
I'll be the first to admit I've never had any serious trauma in my life that made me the way I am today. I was simply born with an inclination towards the antisocial. Perhaps I am a misanthropist, but I tend to not like a lot of the people I meet. After years of being a loner, I was able to make some surface friends in the later years of high school, but after going off to college have lost the shallow connection I had with them. The worst thing is that I don't even feel particularly sad about it.
Were most people just born with a natural instinct and knack for socializing with others and integrating? I don't always feel like I'm missing out, as socializing often seems rather pointless to me. However sometimes when I hear about all the fun other people have or realize that I'm always alone with no one to talk to so often, it feels frightening. It's in those moments that I feel the enormity of my loneliness and isolation.
I'm not going to categorize myself as suicidal or depressed. Most people would say that I'm a very nice person, but that would be it. I think it's because they realize that beneath my 'nice' exterior there's a gaping hole where a person should be.
Does anyone else ever feel so utterly empty?