Yukhi
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Hi Emmy and welcome 
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Emmy
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Yukhi said:Hi Emmy and welcome
Heh, ello =)
Thanks ^.^
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evanescencefan91
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HEYYY
XD
cool thanks for making this thread
I would like to plant my gay flag on it
yay
XD
cool thanks for making this thread
I would like to plant my gay flag on it
yay
Badjedidude
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^^^Well then here's some porn for ya!!!
Ohhh fresia yeaahhhh...
Hot, baby, HOT!!!
Ohhh fresia yeaahhhh...
Hot, baby, HOT!!!
Yukhi
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Rofl Badjedidude!!! xD
That's always a reoccuring joke at other sites everytime someone says their pansexual.
That's always a reoccuring joke at other sites everytime someone says their pansexual.
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eris
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Yukhi said:
I never actually came out to my parents. It would be ugly and it wouldn't accomplish anything. i'm sure they have an idea. When I was in 3d grade me and another girl had to be seperated because "we had a crush on each other". And I got caught with lesbian porn one time
but I don't think they know anything...they would have disowned me if they knew But I don't hide it from anyone else and haven't since I was 13 or so...Oscillate_Wildly
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I'm trysexual....
I try to be sexual, but fail. Miserably.
I try to be sexual, but fail. Miserably.
Badjedidude
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metrosexual = sex with trains?
sadface
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lmao badje
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evanescencefan91
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hahaha great puns bad jedi dude
wow I'm sorry you don't think you're parents would understand
lols my mom cried every night for a week after a told her, but other than that she's been okay, as in the same level of crazy bitchyness
I didn't come out till I graduated from highschool
I probably would have come out sooner, but I just really didn't want to be gay, mainly becuase I feel like everyone would have been like " I told you so" I didn't want everyone to be right about the fact that I was gay,
I really hoped that I was just bi, but luck wouldn't have it
the first person I told was one of muy penpals from here and he was really kind and supportive, and then I eneded up comming out here in like march of of 09 and I was really happy and appreciative about all the warm responses that i got
( thankyou all again guys )
actually it was pretty great becuase seriously like a week after I came out they legalized gay marrige in iowa, so I'd like to think it was all becuase of me comming out that they did that
also some of the things my mom would say when I was younger like when I was really into bagging clothes and such she would say things like " ew you look like a lesbain" so I don't think that really helped
So I thought when I told her I thought she would've been like oh or " i figured"
but she burst into tells and told me how hard my life would be, and the dangers in being gay :l I mean she didn't really mean it that way but like she was concerned about me, becuase of all the hardships and mean people that I'll meet in my gay lifetime.
I don;t like go up to people and introduce myself as gay,
but ussualy I'll mention it if the topic comes up
Like if we start talking about gay marriage or if someone says something funny about gay jokes, but I've never had a problem encountering negative or hurtful people about it. So far everyone I've told minus my mother has been very warm and supportive about it. I've even been high fived when I told a friend
I mean it also helps that eastern Iowa espcially IC a college town is very liberal place
Even went I went to mississipi with a group of catholic nuns.
becuase we we're talking one night asking like why they became nuns and what it was like, and since we we're in the deep south, okolaona, a really small town that still have some race problems
And one of the older nuns ( trivia bit, nuns don't wear the habbits anymore, they just wear regular clothes now how weird) was talking about how people are differnt on the outside but we're all basically inherently the same, and we're all human. And gay people are the same they're still people and shouldn't be treated any differnt. And I said that I was really glad she mentioned that becuase I was gay and they were supportive, and kind. The other girls I worked with were really nice the whole time, and there wern't any problems and no one said anything mean. One girl later said she was really impressed by my courage and we talked a little about it, she mentioned that one of her best friends was gay.
I still haven't told my dad, I don't know when I should, just becuase like 4 years ago when I was like 15 we started talking about gay marrage, and even though he and his side of the family are liberal, they're not for gay marriage which is weird I know, and he was really against it. Because it wasn't natural or becuase the bible said so.
And right now Things with my dad are going pretty well and we're getting along well. And I don't want to ruin that. Also current;y his place is the only place with internet that I can use right now. So ya
it's alright, the only thing that bothers me is that now only about 3% of the population is datable for me,
and I don't really know why, but I don't really like the word lesbian, maybe I'm still a little insecure, but linguistically it's a rather heavy word with the L and S in there, also it's pretty much culturally synonymous with porn, so I prefer the word sapho which is basically it's classy old timey equivalent
but tada I guess that's my story and I hope you enjoyed it
wow I'm sorry you don't think you're parents would understand
lols my mom cried every night for a week after a told her, but other than that she's been okay, as in the same level of crazy bitchyness
I didn't come out till I graduated from highschool
I probably would have come out sooner, but I just really didn't want to be gay, mainly becuase I feel like everyone would have been like " I told you so" I didn't want everyone to be right about the fact that I was gay,
I really hoped that I was just bi, but luck wouldn't have it
the first person I told was one of muy penpals from here and he was really kind and supportive, and then I eneded up comming out here in like march of of 09 and I was really happy and appreciative about all the warm responses that i got
( thankyou all again guys
)actually it was pretty great becuase seriously like a week after I came out they legalized gay marrige in iowa, so I'd like to think it was all becuase of me comming out that they did that
also some of the things my mom would say when I was younger like when I was really into bagging clothes and such she would say things like " ew you look like a lesbain" so I don't think that really helped
So I thought when I told her I thought she would've been like oh or " i figured"
but she burst into tells and told me how hard my life would be, and the dangers in being gay :l I mean she didn't really mean it that way but like she was concerned about me, becuase of all the hardships and mean people that I'll meet in my gay lifetime.
I don;t like go up to people and introduce myself as gay,
but ussualy I'll mention it if the topic comes up
Like if we start talking about gay marriage or if someone says something funny about gay jokes, but I've never had a problem encountering negative or hurtful people about it. So far everyone I've told minus my mother has been very warm and supportive about it. I've even been high fived when I told a friend
I mean it also helps that eastern Iowa espcially IC a college town is very liberal place
Even went I went to mississipi with a group of catholic nuns.
becuase we we're talking one night asking like why they became nuns and what it was like, and since we we're in the deep south, okolaona, a really small town that still have some race problems
And one of the older nuns ( trivia bit, nuns don't wear the habbits anymore, they just wear regular clothes now how weird) was talking about how people are differnt on the outside but we're all basically inherently the same, and we're all human. And gay people are the same they're still people and shouldn't be treated any differnt. And I said that I was really glad she mentioned that becuase I was gay and they were supportive, and kind. The other girls I worked with were really nice the whole time, and there wern't any problems and no one said anything mean. One girl later said she was really impressed by my courage and we talked a little about it, she mentioned that one of her best friends was gay.
I still haven't told my dad, I don't know when I should, just becuase like 4 years ago when I was like 15 we started talking about gay marrage, and even though he and his side of the family are liberal, they're not for gay marriage which is weird I know, and he was really against it. Because it wasn't natural or becuase the bible said so.
And right now Things with my dad are going pretty well and we're getting along well. And I don't want to ruin that. Also current;y his place is the only place with internet that I can use right now. So ya
it's alright, the only thing that bothers me is that now only about 3% of the population is datable for me,
and I don't really know why, but I don't really like the word lesbian, maybe I'm still a little insecure, but linguistically it's a rather heavy word with the L and S in there, also it's pretty much culturally synonymous with porn, so I prefer the word sapho which is basically it's classy old timey equivalent
but tada I guess that's my story and I hope you enjoyed it
Yukhi
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Wahh, I just came back to this thread now. I found your stories inspirational eris and evanescencefan91 I'm bi but I have a girlfriend and we've been together for 5 months now. She doesn't know and no else in real life knows. I wonder if I'll ever get the courage to come out to the people close to me. I'm scared really but I think just keeping this secret of mine bottled up can affect me in the future. I'm just confused and not sure x_X
I'm bi but I have a girlfriend and we've been together for 5 months now. She doesn't know and no else in real life knows. I wonder if I'll ever get the courage to come out to the people close to me. I'm scared really but I think just keeping this secret of mine bottled up can affect me in the future. I'm just confused and not sure x_X
Emmy
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Some great coming out stories there
Depending how ya look at it, i guess i got of lightly. Never had to come out to anyone about being gay, in sense am sorta lucky for that.
Unlucky too because is nobody to come out too, i think it must be a sorta liberating feeling but haven't anyone to come out too cos am seldom ^^
But, i had a friend 19 months ago who took a shine to me & wanted me open up and let my guard down and stuff, got alot of things out & that was one of them ^^
Was double my age, was blessed that had a friend willing to invest her time & energy in uncovering bits of me i refused accepting.
Would go on to abandon me when was desperate & homeless briefly, haven't had contact in very long time now.
But is the coming out story i have, i have a mother but she's not healthiest & isn't someone that takes a interest in me so we never ever talk or anything & she knows anyway and has never spoke on it, we have a big resentment of contact between each other & think she thinks if we ignore the problem it'll go away.
Which is fair enough, she never accepted me before was gay & is unlikely be more receptive now.
So, i guess was lucky haven't needed to have that whole fear of friends/family finding out or spilling the beans etc cos have none so is no worry to fear on their reaction
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Depends on way ya think i guess
My cat doesn't have a problem with it & am sure if he could talk he'd care ^^
Depending how ya look at it, i guess i got of lightly. Never had to come out to anyone about being gay, in sense am sorta lucky for that.
Unlucky too because is nobody to come out too, i think it must be a sorta liberating feeling but haven't anyone to come out too cos am seldom ^^
But, i had a friend 19 months ago who took a shine to me & wanted me open up and let my guard down and stuff, got alot of things out & that was one of them ^^
Was double my age, was blessed that had a friend willing to invest her time & energy in uncovering bits of me i refused accepting.
Would go on to abandon me when was desperate & homeless briefly, haven't had contact in very long time now.
But is the coming out story i have, i have a mother but she's not healthiest & isn't someone that takes a interest in me so we never ever talk or anything & she knows anyway and has never spoke on it, we have a big resentment of contact between each other & think she thinks if we ignore the problem it'll go away.
Which is fair enough, she never accepted me before was gay & is unlikely be more receptive now.
So, i guess was lucky haven't needed to have that whole fear of friends/family finding out or spilling the beans etc cos have none so is no worry to fear on their reaction
.
Depends on way ya think i guess
My cat doesn't have a problem with it & am sure if he could talk he'd care ^^
Badjedidude said:^^^Well then here's some porn for ya!!!
Ohhh fresia yeaahhhh...
Hot, baby, HOT!!!
If you guys are making jokes about pansexuals then someone better make jokes about all the other orientations. Just saying.
Oscillate_Wildly
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If that's the case then bisexual = uses prostitutes?
Yukhi
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Oscillate_Wildly said:
I honestly didn't get your joke when I read it the first few times xD I was trying to figure it out then I thought up how "buy" is pronounced the same so now it makes sense to me.
Badjedidude
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Arnaert said:
No.
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Brother Karl
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I'm gay.
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evanescencefan91
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*high fives brother karl*
yayyyy
that's very cool man
here's a fruit basket for ya
... it seems appropriate
lols
have you been out long?
hey since we're on the topic of gays,
does anyone have any good advice on gaydar?
mine's defective
yayyyy
that's very cool man
here's a fruit basket for ya
... it seems appropriate
lols
have you been out long?
hey since we're on the topic of gays,
does anyone have any good advice on gaydar?
mine's defective
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eris
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oh, I have never had gaydar
I am really surprised as to how many straight girls are interested in lesbianism in a (dissapointingly) non sexual way.
But people usually figure it out about ME though. I often have strangers as me if I am gay.
but now that it is out, so to speak. I guess I change my answer to "I am bisexual and (somewhat) transgendered" ( there is a b and t you see)
I am really surprised as to how many straight girls are interested in lesbianism in a (dissapointingly) non sexual way.
But people usually figure it out about ME though. I often have strangers as me if I am gay.
but now that it is out, so to speak. I guess I change my answer to "I am bisexual and (somewhat) transgendered" ( there is a b and t you see)
