all my life I have felt lonely. Now, my life is better than it has EVER - EVER been and still I am lonely. I have a crappy extended family, great kids and a crappy husband - good job (but boring) and no real close friends. I just don't have the skill to bring people close. I keep my marriage because it is better than nothing - he's not mean or anything - we just grew in different directions. I feel like I'm babbling, but I get tired of asking myself over and over again - how do I now feel lonely - ugh!@#@#. Any ideas would be great