i have recently realized that i must be much more sensitive to my own needs and feelings. I realize that no one else has given a **** about what i wanted to do or been supportive or helpful. even when i wanted things that had no no negative effect on others or was in no way the business of other people, people have interfered. so to make a long story short after being bullied and ignored and screwed over often simultaneously, you develop a really thick skin to your own needs and feelings.
i think that is why i no longer have direction and i am alone and people perceive me as unhappy.
there are consequences i think to what people do to you, especially if its cruel. for example, people talk a lot about the consequences of abuse. but there are consequences to being damaged in tons of ways and it can really change your life and turn it into something that you don't want it to be.
Actually being sensitive to yourself is really hard though. I barely know where to begin. i thought maybe you guys could give some suggestions...
thanks.
i think that is why i no longer have direction and i am alone and people perceive me as unhappy.
there are consequences i think to what people do to you, especially if its cruel. for example, people talk a lot about the consequences of abuse. but there are consequences to being damaged in tons of ways and it can really change your life and turn it into something that you don't want it to be.
Actually being sensitive to yourself is really hard though. I barely know where to begin. i thought maybe you guys could give some suggestions...
thanks.