Estreen
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This is kind of a question more directed at the ladies here, but, how many of you like your (potential) boyfriend/Significant Other to show some initiative, not waiting for plans to just "fall into place", etc? Essentially, do you like your men to "man up" when they need to? I know I'm a bit on the traditional side, but I like for a guy to take charge a little. I don't mind needing to take charge and/or getting involved and all that on matters, but I'd expect a certain amount from his end too, not just all from me, y'know?
For the record, my ideal expectation is that the guy take charge more than the girl, but my realistic expectations are that it should be at least equal on both sides. I don't think that the woman should have to take control more than the guy, unless that's what she and her partner wants.
Ladies, do ya'll feel like this too, where you'd like a guy that takes charge a little, at least with the more important stuff?
And guys, as not to exclude you: do you value this characteristic in your (potential) girlfriends/Significant Others? Do you like your women to take charge, and if so, more than you, just a little bit, or equally? Also, do you think (after a certain point) that the guy in a relationship should show some initiative and assertiveness and "take charge" with certain things?
For the record, my ideal expectation is that the guy take charge more than the girl, but my realistic expectations are that it should be at least equal on both sides. I don't think that the woman should have to take control more than the guy, unless that's what she and her partner wants.
Ladies, do ya'll feel like this too, where you'd like a guy that takes charge a little, at least with the more important stuff?
And guys, as not to exclude you: do you value this characteristic in your (potential) girlfriends/Significant Others? Do you like your women to take charge, and if so, more than you, just a little bit, or equally? Also, do you think (after a certain point) that the guy in a relationship should show some initiative and assertiveness and "take charge" with certain things?