Luna said:That is why I won't date single fathers especially if the ex is still alive.
blackhole said:Luna said:That is why I won't date single fathers especially if the ex is still alive.
****, sucks being a single father...
i can't imagine the backlash if males started dogging out single mothers on this board.
love is supposed to be about a person and is supposed to operate at a higher level above finances.
and, oh yeah, the woman in the conversation must not have heard the "for richer or for poorer" portion of the vows.
beans said:blackhole said:Luna said:That is why I won't date single fathers especially if the ex is still alive.
****, sucks being a single father...
i can't imagine the backlash if males started dogging out single mothers on this board.
love is supposed to be about a person and is supposed to operate at a higher level above finances.
and, oh yeah, the woman in the conversation must not have heard the "for richer or for poorer" portion of the vows.
maybe those single fathers/mothers should have thought of that before having a kid? It just shows that they never did much thinking - ignorance.
blackhole said:beans said:blackhole said:Luna said:That is why I won't date single fathers especially if the ex is still alive.
****, sucks being a single father...
i can't imagine the backlash if males started dogging out single mothers on this board.
love is supposed to be about a person and is supposed to operate at a higher level above finances.
and, oh yeah, the woman in the conversation must not have heard the "for richer or for poorer" portion of the vows.
maybe those single fathers/mothers should have thought of that before having a kid? It just shows that they never did much thinking - ignorance.
some of us weren't single when our children were born.
blackhole said:i am a single father AND i love kids.
i presently date a lovely lady with children.
if anything, i appreciate her more for being a mother.
mothers have true character.
and i agree with you, i've never understood the guys who write off women with children, especially if that guy (himself) has kids. that's very hypocritical.
i also agree with your statement about chicks just getting knocked up for the hell of it, that IS ignorance.
"my baby don't need no daddy".
ok, sure thing, see you on maury in about ten years.
jjam said:It's actually just as fair as someone being uninterested in someone for whatever reason(s). To state that in a dating profile is to say "don't waste your time with me if you want children". I think it's fair and honest as opposed to not telling them up front and then having to disappoint her after she's grown emotionally attached.
beans said:Hmmm why do people who are married and are dating on this forum? They can't be lonely can they? If they are, then us singles are doomed. Coz lo and behold, we don't even have anyone to text and say 'hey baby'.
And about guys who have children from previous relationships, they usually say that to women who are single and have no children: "Look, I don't wanna have kids anymore." I just don't think its fair to the lady who has never had the chance to have kids.
beans said:If I was looking for true love, I would not write in my dating profile that I don't want a relationship with a:
1) divorcee
2) divorcee with kids
3) divorcee with crazy exes
But if I was looking for convenience and to fulfill my own self interests via a relationship then I'd have a long list.
blackhole said:Luna said:That is why I won't date single fathers especially if the ex is still alive.
****, sucks being a single father...
i can't imagine the backlash if males started dogging out single mothers on this board.
love is supposed to be about a person and is supposed to operate at a higher level above finances.
and, oh yeah, the woman in the conversation must not have heard the "for richer or for poorer" portion of the vows.
beans said:Hmmm why do people who are married and are dating on this forum? They can't be lonely can they? If they are, then us singles are doomed. Coz lo and behold, we don't even have anyone to text and say 'hey baby'.
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