Hawx79
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My ex girlfriend wrote me few days ago because she said she was worried about me after betraying me. She wants to stay friends with me. But I refused as I can't bear the thought of her being with another man.
I deleted everything about her. But then she wrote me again apologizing for her betrayal as she ended it with me a few months ago telling me that she didn't feel love for me and that she likes another man. I was shocked because I thought everything was fine between us. We did have a few arguments lately but they didn't seem a big deal to me.
She wrote that she really wants to have a friend as me and that we could communicate as friends but nothing more.
It felt like a stab in my heart because I still love her. I told her there cannot be friendship if there is love and that it would be too painful for me to witness her having romantic relation with another man while I will keep an eye on her!
A month ago I tried to renew our relationship but she got angry and said that's its better not to communicate anymore because I don't want to stay friends. So she knows it and knows how I feel about it. Yet recently she again contact me and said she wants to stay sometimes talk with me and to give me advice for other women! And again I made it clear that i didn't want that and yet even now she hasn't deleted me from her social contacts but refuses to meet me face to face.
Some of the things she said a few months ago still hurts me. Like saying that she could not make me happy because she doesn't love me, despite making plans of marriage with me! We known each other a year. Then why did she all this time speak about a future with me if she never loved me??
I also found new pictures of her on her facebook wearing a red dress with her best friend, clearly to attract men. I feel very lonely now without her. We used to talk everyday for a year and now nothing. I feel so lonely, abandoned, left to my own fate. I feel betrayed and mistreated... I tried to search for new women but no one is interested in me. Besides I cannot give all of myself to someone else with her on my mind every day.
And I am sure she is having very nice romantic moments with her new man...
I deleted everything about her. But then she wrote me again apologizing for her betrayal as she ended it with me a few months ago telling me that she didn't feel love for me and that she likes another man. I was shocked because I thought everything was fine between us. We did have a few arguments lately but they didn't seem a big deal to me.
She wrote that she really wants to have a friend as me and that we could communicate as friends but nothing more.
It felt like a stab in my heart because I still love her. I told her there cannot be friendship if there is love and that it would be too painful for me to witness her having romantic relation with another man while I will keep an eye on her!
A month ago I tried to renew our relationship but she got angry and said that's its better not to communicate anymore because I don't want to stay friends. So she knows it and knows how I feel about it. Yet recently she again contact me and said she wants to stay sometimes talk with me and to give me advice for other women! And again I made it clear that i didn't want that and yet even now she hasn't deleted me from her social contacts but refuses to meet me face to face.
Some of the things she said a few months ago still hurts me. Like saying that she could not make me happy because she doesn't love me, despite making plans of marriage with me! We known each other a year. Then why did she all this time speak about a future with me if she never loved me??
I also found new pictures of her on her facebook wearing a red dress with her best friend, clearly to attract men. I feel very lonely now without her. We used to talk everyday for a year and now nothing. I feel so lonely, abandoned, left to my own fate. I feel betrayed and mistreated... I tried to search for new women but no one is interested in me. Besides I cannot give all of myself to someone else with her on my mind every day.
And I am sure she is having very nice romantic moments with her new man...