Triple Bogey said:
Hawx79 said:
Triple Bogey said:
You mention trying hundreds of times and getting rejected. Is that trying to meet new people and trying new things ?
Or meeting a woman ?
Don't be unhappy because you can't find a girlfriend. Most of them are more trouble than they are worth. If you have a job then I presume you have money. You should take up new hobbies, exciting stuff to get the heart pumping. Forget about women for awhile. There is a world out there to enjoy. Book an holiday, go somewhere you have always wanted to go. Have something to look forward to.
Yes new women each time.
I already do all these things. I do sports, travel on my own and have other hobbies at home. I really tried to enjoy life on my own as much possible but the urge just gets stronger each year but I feel I'm running out of time now with my age.
I'm willing to put a lot of effort into it, but no women respects me and some even hate me on first sight. Its a humiliating pain each time to get rejected.
Sounds like you should be enjoying your life. You have hobbies, you travel. Why are you so unhappy ?
Its a strong desire I cant slide it off so easily. Maybe you're right, women aren't worth it and bring another set of problems but I don't care, I simply can't deny my feelings.
ardour said:
TheRealCallie said:
All you can do is keep trying, but I suspect you should probably work on yourself and find the reason why you are being rejected.
The reason could simply be that some people are born more or less attractive than others.
Yes that is the reason for all my rejection.
I know I'm a nice and interesting person but to women I'm still ugly beyond acceptance, even the nicer ones reject me on sight. I don't want to be cynical but it seems to me that women only seem to take an interest in a guy when he looks good at first. But since no woman don't want to even take the time to get to know me for more then a day I don't even get a shot at it.